Reading Christianity and its stories with hierarchy in mind
One problem that has arisen in our topsy-turvy world is the incapacity to read hierarchically. The fear and outright rejection by fundamentalists of any extra-Biblical material, as well as traditional authority, has caused an impoverished reading of the Bible itself. Rather than understanding the Bible directly without the "corruption" of extra-Biblical traditions, they instead interpreted the Bible through a rationalist and scientific lens. This has led to the bankruptcy of Christianity and Western thought in general.
When one reads hierarchically, extra-Biblical material, such as apocryphal or non-canonical writings, does not threaten the purity of Christianity as fundamentalists and atheists wish to believe. Rather, extra-Biblical traditions and other stories can provide insight that is implicit in the Bible, but that we might need a bit of a nudge to see. So if the Bible says nothing about Christ being born in a cave, the extra-Biblical tradition detailing this fact can help us see some of the implications of the incarnation more clearly.
Ignoring the apocryphal traditions will lead us to misunderstand the implicit relationships and meaning in the Bible. But at the same time, one has to be careful not to see apocryphal stories as being on the same level as the Biblical text or in competition with the basic tenets of Christianity. Like any hierarchy, these extra tidbits should rather act as arrows pointing us always back to what is essential, which is ultimately Christ Himself. Without hierarchy, the apocryphal stories and pseudo-gospels will slowly devour the Bible and Christianity, which is what we have seen in the last few decades.
This pattern also goes for mythology and legends from all over the world, as well as for literature in general. When all these things hold their proper position in a hierarchy of meaning, we can read and enjoy them, and more readily receive their insights into the deeper patterns of reality.
Stories That Portray a Grand Vision of Christian Cosmology